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teen_bullyingA high school female student, a victim of bullying in her school, decided to end being a victim of her classmate bullies by ending her own life.

Aileen, a 17-year-old 2016 semifinalist for the New York Times College Scholarship program and who also happens to have a twin sister studying in the same school, left the school campus during lunchtime one Thursday and stepped into the path of a subway train in the City of New York.

The tragic incident prompted to a number of students to approach the school’s grief counselor before who they expressed remorse for their harsh treatment of Aileen. They confessed to calling her awkward, ugly or stupid.

Bullying, which remains to be a major problem, especially in many city public high-schools, affects at least one in every five students. Bullying can take place anywhere, in or out of school, and its form can be verbal or physical. Physical bullying, specifically, may be directed against a peer, or against a person older or younger than the bully; it may also be directed towards a victim’s property, which the bully may use either to intimidate, or inflict harm on, the victim. Verbal bullying, on the other hand, can include making obscene remarks towards the victim, name-calling, spreading rumors about the victim, teasing or threatening.

About 45 States have bullying laws, with New York passing its own legislation very recently. However, despite these laws, many school authorities reveal that bullying still persists, one major reason is because the bullied never seek help, trying to deal with his or her pain and sufferings alone. Sadly, though, the only solution a bullied often sees in ending his or her pains is through suicide.